"When I was 17, I read a quote that went
something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday
you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since
then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning
and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want
to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been
"No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
Remembering
that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered
to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything —
all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or
failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving
only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is
the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to
lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your
heart." -Steve Jobs, in a 2005 speech
This advice, in my opinion, is completely and utterly useless. Just
think about it, if you lived like each day was your last, you'd only get
so far. Think of the expenses, the time you're taking up. It's
ridiculously inefficient. I'll give you a scenario: Everyday, I will
just be staying at home. I'll order all the things I want, a 52-inch
TV, the best computer system, a new car. Pretty soon, I will die, but
only because of the events that occurred, due to thinking I was going to
die. If you know you're going to die this very day, you might as well
do everything you can to minimize the impact of your death to the
community. It may sound cruel, but death happens, it's unavoidable.
I
also disagree with Steve Job's speech. First of all, remembering that
you would be dead help you with big choices? I don't think you should
be thinking about death, when faced with big choices. You should think
on how the big chance would have a positive or negative effect on your
life, and decide based on that. Secondly, stripping of all external
expectations leads to only one thing, failure. Having no expectations,
makes you feel like you don't have to do anything. That can only end up
in a negative impact. If you throw away all fear of embarrassment, or
failure, then you wouldn't be able to improve upon yourself.
Remembering that I am going to die is the best way I know to FALL in the
trap of thinking I have something to lose. I am literally losing my
whole life; my achievements, my failures, and my joys. I think what
Steve is trying to say, is that if you're going to die, do it anyways,
however there are situations where that logic does not apply. What if
you could harm someone with what you're doing? What if it has a degrading effect
on others around you? In my experience, trying to forget that something
bad is going to happen generally helps to alleviate the stress and
therefore reduces your chances of making a mistake in the big choices in
life.
People are always trying to view death as an
important event, but in reality, everything dies. Nothing can live
forever, not even the hardiest of diamonds or the brightest of stars.
Everything has a beginning, therefore an end. I know things like
funeral and burials are necessities, and I agree, but people shouldn't
be thinking about death. They should be think about what lies beyond
death, like the future of their grandchildren, or the future of their
company. They should be glad that they have lived an enjoyable life,
and if not, then it is only their own fault for not doing anything about
it. For the people born to die, I know it's hard accepting, but you
have to get over the fact of death if you want to enjoy every lasting
moment of your life. It's really sad when people throw away all they
have, just because they're going to die. At the end of the day, it's
better to just forget reality, and live on, in your dreams.